Many are the men who think that the most important thing to do is to seduce a woman. To that end, they tell themselves they must show themselves gallant, considerate, smiling and attentive. Once that is done, they let their arms drop and tell themselves the hardest part is behind them. They take that woman for granted. A monumental mistake!
In doing so, they forget one crucial fact: a woman has to be impressed.
To make the whole thing even more complicated, but no less realistic, let us add one word: a woman has to be impressed CON-TIN-U-AL-LY .
Slumbering in every woman is that Prince Charming, muscular and brave, on a white horse that used to gallop through her childhood dreams. To truly feed a wild passion and a love with substance, you will have to take that prince’s place, or come close to it. How?? By impressing that woman.
This is not about a haughty, offhand way of impressing a woman; that is to say, passing yourself off as the perfect guy, who knows everything, does everything, can do everything, has everything and is worth everything. You will have gathered that this is not a man, it is not even a god; it is God!
Impressing your woman, within the framework of this article, means "becoming her hero". You could impress a woman by taking care of your appearance, by expressing your tremendous personality and by demonstrating the aptitudes and/or resources that are yours alone. You must always look fit and feel good. It sends her the message that you are mature and thoughtful.
In the end, you have to perform acts and have reactions that mean that…
… when your woman is in danger, you are the one she thinks of.
… when she needs support, you are the one she thinks of.
… when she has good news to announce or to celebrate, you are the one she thinks of.
… when she has behaved badly and does not know whom to confide in, once again you are the one she thinks of.
… when she feels lonely or low and wants company, you are still the one she thinks of.
You must be the reference point for your partner without negotiating that place, without even having to contest it with a best friend or with anyone else. The firm decisions you make and the way you assert yourself must grant you that privileged place without rival.
Make your partner love you and she will stay with you.
Impress her with your intelligence, your mental strength, your physical strength, your personality, your talents, and she will stay with you always.
Your actions must make your partner your number 1 fan. You will have moments of weakness, you will shed tears, you will let your arms drop, you will be at the end of your rope, because you are a human being. You are fallible. But that must remain the exception. The rule: you must be ready when your partner needs you. That is what this is about.
Do ladies need to impress gentlemen too?
Not so much! It is enough for them to be half church women, half sluts. Gentlemen generally do not ask for much more than that.
M. Z.
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